Monday, June 18, 2012

#24: donate my hair

I was so eager to cut my hair after the wedding, and was so excited to see it was more than enough to donate to Pantene's Beautiful Lengths!  On the last day of the school year, I headed home with my aunt to get it all chopped off.

This is about the length of my hair before the cut:



 Here's my ponytail, ready to be sent to Pantene:



And here's my hair after:

with my little brother

#42: have/host a party

To celebrate my best friend's upcoming wedding, I hosted a "Monograms and Mimosas" shower at my apartment.  I used pinterest ideas for almost everything I did, and was so happy with how everything turned out!

fruit skewers

snacks

gift table

gift from me-letter art featuring their new last name

mimosa bar with personalized champagne glasses

letter "guest book" to sign

pudding parfaits
We had a great time and I can't wait to celebrate Molly and John's special day with them in July!

#10: watch all 3 original Star Wars movies back to back (EDIT: See all releases in 3D)

 Episode I: The Phantom Menace

My obsession with love for Star Wars started in elementary school when my dad took me to all the "Special Edition" releases. Since then, I haven't been able to get enough of the Star Wars universe. Including the need to climb into a cardboard cut out of Obi-Wan Kenobi's head at the movie theatre, in front of people, and demand that Andrew take my picture...you can tell he is a good  man because he still married me after this embarrassing public display. 

 
Someone may try to tell you I'm a nerd. Don't listen. Clearly you can see that I'm not.


I was so excited when I found out George Lucas was trying to squeeze more money out of the franchise by releasing both trilogies in 3D. I plan on seeing all of these movies in theaters. This time, I even got limited edition Darth Maul 3D glasses for purchasing opening day tickets!

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#34: take a long bike ride

I may be cheating a bit here, but I'm about to use one weekend trip to cross off three of my goals.  In January, my family took a weekend trip to Litchfield Beach/Pawley's Island in anticipation of my upcoming wedding and my brother's entrance into the US Air Force, as a sort of "last vacation" together  before we were both all grown up :)

On Saturday, we rented bikes from our resort and rode down the beach to Huntington Beach State Park. While this probably doesn't count to some as a "long" bike ride, it was about 4.3 miles round trip, not to mention the riding we did all around the park. Plus, I could barely walk the next day. So it counts for me.




Tuesday, January 3, 2012

#71: volunteer for a cause/campaign I believe in

Convoy of Hope is a national organization that participates in community outreach and is very close to my heart for two reasons. 1) It brings together volunteers from dozens of area churches and businesses, regardless of denomination, personal conviction, or political affiliation, and 2) It lifts the spirits, even if only for one day, of a city's poor, who are struggling with difficult circumstances.  In Charleston, Convoy of Hope has been going on for several years, and I participated in one of the first ones with my parents around 8 or so years ago. 

I won't go in to a ton of detail, you can get that here, but on December 10th, I spent the day with Andrew and my parents' small group volunteering in the grocery area, bagging and distributing groceries to the hundreds of people who showed up. It was somewhere in the neighborhood of 40 degrees or so (maybe I'm exaggerating, but it was COLD) plus it rained off and on all day. What truly amazed me was the way that every single volunteer I encountered had a smile on their face and nothing but encouraging things to say despite the disgusting weather conditions.  We worked together with people we'd never met, because we had a common goal-to help people who for whatever reason were having trouble helping themselves that day.

It is so easy for me to become self-righteous and vindictive towards people I've never even met before, and to think that since I had no problem graduating high school, college, and getting a job, that everyone should be able to do the same. What is so easy to see, though, when I take the time to really interact with people and hear their personal struggles, is that everyone is not as fortunate as me, did not grow up where I did, and despite what is said about this amazing country we live in, was not given an equal opportunity to succeed. 

So, even though I went to Convoy of Hope expecting to help people, the people at Convoy of Hope helped me, by helping me remember that it is only by the grace of God that I was placed in my circumstances. It reinforced what I believe to be God's calling on my life, that I use the circumstances I've been given to make a difference in the lives of children who need to be shown love and stability they might not receive at home.  And it was a great reminder that the "us vs. them" mentality I carry with me so often is a twisted way of looking at the world in which I am more important than everyone else in it.  I hope, in the new year, I am able to remember that every single person I come in contact with was created by God and is loved by God, and that I need to love them the way He does. This is such a struggle for me, but it is so important!!!

And now that I'm completely off topic and rambling to myself....I just want to say Convoy of Hope is spectacular and if you have a Convoy event in your city, figure out how to be a part of it...it is just one day to devote to making a difference in the world, and  trying to change the world a little bit might just change your life :)

#67: go on a picnic

This happened back in July, and I have no image as proof, but Andrew and I took delicious Publix subs...correction, I took a sub, he took chicken fingers.... to the beach one evening and had a picnic.  Such a boring post, I know, but I intend to record EVERY complete item on my list. This outing prompted Andrew and I to leave folding camping chairs in the back of his truck for impromptu beach outings in the future, a prospect I am very excited about!

#57: visit our names at the Riverwalk restaurant in Savannah, GA



One year ago, Molly, John, Andrew, and I inscribed our names on the wall in this restaurant (totally allowed, and the waitress gave us a Sharpie).  I peeked my head in and looked, but I was too embarrassed to walk in and go to the table without actually eating there, and I was full from The Pirate's House.  So this is as "crossed off" as this goal is getting, unless we eat here on our honeymoon, which I doubt will happen :)